17 Jan 2012
actually i've start to jotting sumthin in d blogging wall since year of 2008.in d age of 29, i was thinking that a transition must be done, in terms of mindset,activities,habits,attitudes, the way of life,and so many other things about me acquire an upgrade, a +ve enhancement must be reach.but to approach a major transition in ourselves was not an easy task to complete.as the real challenge is actually our inner paradigm which has being piled up in ourselves since we start learning to know what we'd like to know and do what we'd like to do.same goes to me and i believe others will have the same difficulty or might be facing the same scenario, which "hardly fight our own behavior for better life".
however for me its not a reason,that allowing me to stay at my comfort stage nor zone.a transtion in my life is a "must". a single inch of enhancement must be reach.as i strongly believed,this moved gonna gave a great momentum one day. i must get off from the feeling of "feeling glow in sorrow".this happen to the majority of people out there.so that i've decideto be different by being a minority. why???because a minority of people are the people who were success in whatever they do and intend to do.
so then, i've start to thinking on which portion should i tackle for my life transition.at the time i have no reference nor a great mentor.i start to think alone.but the merciful allah, guide me.unconciously i started to change the way of thinking that lead me tremendously to a right "mindset".
the first thing that i do are by expressing all ideas and feeling into this medium (blogs) which gave a private room to release what ever i feel.at the first time, this blogs is more to an option to me to release my stress instead of addicted hobby karaoke huhuhu.(all my past -ve post have been removed frm this page).
but as i said earlier, i need to make a transition in my life and i'm choosing to enhance my mindset.realizing the main motive of having this blog, i've started to jot sumthin which is a bit +ve than before.coz,every time i release my anger on this wall, there's only me who read it again and again which suddenly double up my stress as i keep on reading the jot which telling me that i'am damn stress and it coz me to become extremely stress.
to be continue. ;)
18 Feb 2012
Here i come again....;) time is running too fast...so we have to act faster than time.....or else we'll then realize that we're already out of time to do what we're suppose to do in our life........
So back to my past post in the mid of last month...which is about my "Mindset Transition" which might be the same, similar or maybe some of us was on the same track of me.......so that maybe this post could become a guidance to your journey of success.
The first step i did is to change my -ve thinking which influences my by my own self. Rather telling myself that i'm not happy and don't know what to do,i start to tell my self what i want and what am i suppose to do.
Since i'm not an active blogger, so normally i'll write a -ve status on my Facebook wall.As a muslim i strongly believe what people read or say about us will be a direct prayer to us which will be hear and easily accpeted by Allah. So most my comment there is a variety of a motivation words that i copy from a various motivated and a success person. But many of the motivation phrases that i put there are coming from my motivated mind. I've to do this, i've to train my mind. Why i'm doing this?it's not to show to others that i'm a great person, but it's because i believes that there're thousand of people out there and around me that can give me a motivation, but it won't completely works on me unless i become the one who keep on motivating myself.
There's a story of "the strong stubborn horse and the experience breeder".The strong horse was exhausted and almost died as it couldn't find the water source. The breeder realize the condition of the horse and trying to help. So, the breeder have to pull the strong horse hardly as the horse don't want to obey his command, but the breeder won't give up and still trying to bring the horse to the nearest river in order to rescue him. The strong horse don't want to die, but he's not happy the way the breeder thread him. But since he couldn't hold the way the breeder thread him, and the experience breeder now his weakness and start to smack his tail to make the horse move. Finally the horse then follow the breeder until the river. At this stage, the smart breeder was having no idea on how to help the horse anymore as the stubborn horse don't want to drink the water from the river. The breeder try hardly to bend the horse neck to ensure his mouth touch the water surface, but the horse still don't want to drink it. The horse was so happy as finally he win the protest between him and the breeder. What ever the breeder do, the horse still close his mouth. The breeder patiently wait until few days hoping that the horse will start drinking but the horse refuse not to drink and stick to protest. Day after day the horse health become weak and weak and finally he died.
So, what could we learn from this tales story? The horse is actually us, a human...some of us didn't realize that we're stubborn. We know what we need, but sometimes we don't realize when Allah sent us a guide to reach what we need. Normally what we do? We missed interpret it........so no matter how others trying to help us......it won't make any sense until we take our part seriously to get what we want to get and to reach where we're suppose to reach. No matter how good the mentor behind you, they could not get you to your final goal, unless you start to take a step towards it.
There's more that i would like to jot in here......i love to do this......but i realizes now......we could not always get what ever we like or love to.......as sometimes what you don't like is much more important to me and the people around me....so what i need to do now is to manage and segregate my times smarter between what i like and what am i suppose to do.......
I'll come back again to share on the journey of my mindset transition....till then...no matter how much you get from the jot today....what we need to do now is to take an immediate action towards our goal of success..same goes to me......i got some biz to deal.....till then...i wish you all d best and may Allah facilitates us in what ever our planned and execution.....as my mentor told me " Don't Stop When You're Tired, Stop When You're DONE".
Till then.... " Man Jadda Wa Jada - If There's a Will Then There's A Will"
